* Give your child jobs to do at home so that he can see that the family needs him. Even a toddler can do simple jobs such as emptying wastebaskets or clearing the dinner table. * Make charts for your child to help her complete daily tasks such as getting ready in the morning or after school responsibilities.
* To help your child keep track of personal items, especially things that are needed outside the home, have your child make their own "Belongings Box." Provide them with a large box and supplies in order to decorate it with,
Help your child learn to "be responsible" for their actions by discussing your child's behavior, with them when they, have behaved inappropriately. Ask your child the following questions:
1)How did your behavior affect others?
2)What would have been a better choice or way to handle the situation"
3) What do you need to do to fix the situation?
When providing a consequence for your child, make sure "the punishment fits the crime--" so that it becomes a leaning experience for your child. (i.e. writing a letter of apology to a friend when they have mistreated them.)